Dear Avery,
Happy 9th Birthday, my sweet girl!
It’s hard to believe another year has gone by, and I just keep thinking about how much you’ve grown—not just taller (though definitely that too!), but in the way you think, feel, and make choices. Watching you become you is one of the greatest joys of my life.
This year, you made some big decisions—like stepping away from gymnastics when you realized it was too much with school and everything else going on. That wasn’t easy, but you trusted yourself and did what was best for you, and that shows how wise and brave you are.
Speaking of being brave, did I mention how impressed I am that you took on a double black diamond this ski season? Something I’ve never done nor do I think I’ll ever do, even as an adult let alone an 8 year old.
You continue to be such a smart, curious, and positive student. I love hearing about what you’re learning and watching how you lead by example, just by being kind, hardworking, and thoughtful. You’re a great friend, too—I love seeing the special friendships you’ve built with other amazing little 9-year-olds. You lift people up and make them feel happy, just by being your silly, smiling self.
You have this incredible laugh that fills up a room and makes everyone around you feel good. You don’t take life too seriously (in the best way), and you always find the fun and beauty in the little things. I admire that more than you know.
Your love for reading and drawing continues to shine, and your creativity is truly something special. I can see your artistic heart growing every day, and I hope you never stop making the world brighter with your imagination.
I know I don’t always give you enough credit—being the firstborn means you often get the “trial run” version of mom. And yes, sometimes there's a little extra drama in the mix—when you throw the heavy eye roll my way it's like I am looking in a mirror! But even in those moments, I am always so, so proud of you. Being your mom is my favorite thing in the world, and I love you more than words can say.
Happy Birthday, Avery. Keep being exactly who you are—because who you are is wonderful.
Love,
Mom 💕
